During the festive season, my nephew, a Gen Z, with his characteristic curiosity, revisited a conversation we had in December 2023. Back then, he had confidently approached me, asking for an assessment of a mental condition he believed he had. At the time, I gently declined, offering no clear explanation. But this year, he was...
According to the Oxford Dictionary, impatience is defined as the feeling of annoyance with someone or something, particularly when a wait is prolonged. Although impatience is a natural human emotion, frequent occurrences could signal a deeper issue. It’s essential to approach impatience with understanding and empathy. Why, you might ask? Conditions like ADHD, depression, adverse...
By Lambert Oigara, Clinical Psychologist, CBT Kenya Summary: The article discusses the cultural rift impacting communication between different generations in Kenya, focusing on the contrasting mindsets of older and younger generations. It suggests that embracing growth, humility, and a willingness to learn can help mitigate tensions and foster better generational relationships. Society today is multicultural,...
By Lambert Oigara, Consultant Clinical Psychologist Overview: This article discusses the impact of colonial legacies on mental health practices in Africa, particularly in Kenya. It outlines how colonialism marginalized traditional African healing practices and promoted Western mental health methods, often to the detriment of culturally relevant approaches. Additionally, it highlights modern challenges in mental health...
By Lambert Oigara, Consultant Clinical Psychologist “I don’t see the difference between breaking your leg and having a mental health breakdown. It’s health, there is no distinction.” These sentiments by US President Joe Biden highlight the undeniable link between mental and physical health. However, many around the world do not receive adequate mental health care....
In 1969, former president of the American Psychological Association (APA), George A. Miller, envisioned making psychology accessible to the general public, urging his peers to ‘give away Psychology.’ During an era dominated by Freudian psychoanalysis, Piaget’s cognitive theory, and Watson’s behavioural theories, psychology gained traction in the Western world following the aftermath of World War...
Self-Compassion: Treating Yourself with Kindness – CBT Kenya What is Self-Compassion? At its core, self-compassion is about treating oneself with the same level of kindness and understanding that we would offer to a good friend. It’s recognizing that perfection is unattainable and that making mistakes is part of being human. Dr. Kristin Neff, a leading...
Embracing January as Mental Wellness Month – CBT Kenya As we usher in the new year, January takes on a special significance beyond resolutions and fresh starts—it marks Mental Wellness Month. In a world that constantly demands our attention and resilience, prioritizing mental well-being is crucial. This month serves as a poignant reminder to reflect...
Perfectionism and Burnout: The Struggle for Balance – CBT Kenya In today’s fast-paced and competitive world, the pursuit of excellence has become a hallmark of success. However, this relentless pursuit of perfection often comes at a significant cost – burnout. Perfectionism, characterized by the unrelenting pursuit of high standards and fear of failure, can drive...
Cost of living and mental health – CBT Kenya Our basic human needs of staying warm, safe and having enough to eat are being challenged. The cost of living is a pressing issue that affects individuals and families worldwide. It encompasses the expenses necessary to maintain a basic standard of living, including housing, food, transportation,...
